Monday, June 22, 2015

Petr Cech to Arsenal

It is now official that petr cech have sign for gunners the deal was done around 12:00 pm kenya time
Cech is a four-time Premier League winner, four-
time FA Cup winner, three-line League Cup
winner and is one of few goalkeepers to win the
Premier League player of the month award.

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Thursday, June 18, 2015

My Husband and I Haven't Had Sex in More Than a Year.

My husband and I have not had sex in a year and a half. We've had sex maybe 10 times in the last five years. I am a sexual trauma survivor. These two things are directly related, but it's taken me years to make the connection.
Our sex life wasn't always like this. For the first six months of our relationship, we had sex all the time. Passionate, mind-blowing sex, in fact. Knock-your-socks off sex. So you can imagine my husband's confusion when I suddenly seemed to lose interest.
It was around the time we moved in together, and I didn't know what was wrong. We thought it was hormonal, and I switched birth controls. We thought it was related to some major life changes, so we waited it out. We thought it was a difference in libido, so we tried things like taking sex off the table for a month. We tried hooking up but not having intercourse. I started going to therapy. The problem only got worse.
My husband began to feel like I wasn't attracted to him anymore. He stopped trying to initiate things. He grew resentful. We talked about options like opening our marriage. We had a lot of conversations about the fact that this wasn't fair or what he wanted in a relationship. Since I have also been interested in women, he questioned whether I was attracted to men at all.

Meanwhile, I felt despondent. I felt detached and numb. I knew I was attracted to my husband, because I felt it. But I didn't want to have sex. I wanted to kiss and cuddle without it leading to anything else. Sometimes I'd give in to some form of sexual activity, but I always felt empty and used afterward. There was always an elephant in the room. It felt like it was between us when we got into bed at night.
What's funny is that I'm a certified rape crisis counselor. I can talk about the effects of sexual trauma on sex until I'm blue in the face. But I couldn't internalize it and apply it to my own life. I was sure that there was a different problem. I swore that my trauma hadn't affected me to that level. And for years, I used sex as a coping mechanism.
In the years leading up to meeting my husband, I found myself joining the "sex-positive" movement. I wore it like a badge of liberation. I was determined to take back my body. I found BDSM and kink, and I jumped in with abandon. I thought I was free. It's only now, with clear vision, that I can look back and see that I was not in an emotionally healthy place to be making these kinds of decisions. At the time, I viewed a lot of these activities as consensual but I recognize now that I was not emotionally healthy enough to be consenting. It is absolutely possible to participate in fully consensual BDSM. But for me, at that time, I wasn't capable of it and I didn't realize it. And the result of this is that it traumatized me more.
That all came to a head for me when my husband and I moved in together. What I know now, that I didn't know then, is that all of this is normal. What I know now, that I couldn't internalize then, is that I was coping in the best way I knew how. And it's because of the safety that I finally felt with my husband and in our relationship that the symptoms of my trauma finally shone through. And now I'm left undoing not only the harm that other people have done to me, but the harm I caused myself under the guise of sexual liberation.
Today, my husband and I are seeing a wonderful counselor. What we've learned, together, is that it's normal for sex to be great at the beginning and to taper off when the survivor begins to feel "safe." My dissociation and numbness around sex are also normal. It was hard for him to understand at first, because dissociation doesn't look traumatic to someone witnessing it; it just looks like lack of enthusiasm. Which is why, for so long, my husband thought I just wasn't into sex with him. As we, and I, start to work through this stuff, I get triggered. It gets hard. It gets uncomfortable. But I choose to think of it as progress, as a sign that I'm beginning to move through the numbing phase and onto the healing phase.
We both know that we have a long road ahead of us. We know that we won't go back to having wonderful, consistent sex tomorrow, or even next week. But now that we're both on the same page and the problem is clear, we feel a freedom and a closeness that we haven't felt in a long time. The fact that we're tackling this together brings us an intimacy that we lost when we stopped having sex. And while having regular date nights and finding activities to do together doesn't bring quite the same intimacy that sex does, we're taking steps in the direction of healing and we both finally feel hopeful that one day, we'll have sex again.

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HIGH SCHOOL MOMENT WITH Celebrated TV personality Julie Gichuru


celebrated TV Julie Gichuru, public figure was more than beautiful back in high she was also inspiring girl in school she was the most wanted lady in case you need any help not only that but she did many things to his friends.

Though it’s not throwback Thursday yet, the talk show host shared on social media a photo from her high school days. Back when she was a student at Imani School in Thika. Julie joined the GCE school in Form 3 after convincing her parents to transfer her from the local 8-4-4 system


If you can’t get enough of her charming looks now, you will wish you knew her back then.
She wrote: Going through my old pics and found this gem, taken with my Ugandan friends & classmates Muna & Vanessa. Note the typewriters in our ‘state of the art’ business class located on the top half of a Banda! I must say I loved my Imani experience in the middle of the pineapple plantations of Del Monte in Thika



Though it’s not throwback Thursday yet, the talk show host shared on social media a photo from her high school days. Back when she was a student at Imani School in Thika. Julie joined the GCE school in Form 3 after convincing her parents to transfer her from the local 8-4-4 system. - See more at: http://nairobiwire.com/2015/06/photo-julie-gichuru-was-still-a-hottie-back-in-high-school.html#sthash.wfgjLgAg.dpuf

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Wednesday, June 17, 2015

BETTY KYALO CHILD HELPS HER MUMMY DRIVE BMW



Celebrity baby, Ivanna is all grown she is already gearing to ‘drive’ her mum to wherever she wants to go. TV couple, Betty Kyallo and Dennis Okari welcomed the bouncing baby girl about a year ago.
She has since become one of the most popular celebrity babies in the country. In keeping up with Baby Ivanna and her progress, she recently assumed the role of co-driver as she was being driven to hospital.

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The Walking Dead's Norman Reedus, Former Costar Emily Kinney Are Dating!

Dawn of a Dead relationship! Emily Kinney and Norman Reedus, who met on AMC’s zombie thriller The Walking Dead, are seeing each other, sources reveal exclusively in the new issue of Us Weekly.
"They had a connection early on in the show," says a source close to the duo, "but the romance developed recently. They're still pretty guarded about it."
Recently, the dad of 15-year-old Mingus (his son with model Helena Christensen) cheered on the singer-songwriter, 29, at her May 21 show in Decatur, Ga. An eyewitness tells Us a few die-hard Dead fans noticed Reedus in the audience and got excited. "For some time everyone wanted two of the most beloved Walking Dead characters to be together, but of course, Beth was killed off," says the observer.
Reedus and the rest of the Dead cast are in Atlanta filming Season 6 of the zombie drama and Kinney is on tour. But she told Us she travels with a keepsake from her Dead days. "I’m not as much of a collector as everyone else," she said. "(But) I have this turtle shell Norman gave me that I take everywhere

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Jacqueline Jossa shows off her engagement ring for the first time as she takes a romantic.

She had a holiday to remember in Greece, watching her sister get married and becoming engaged herself.
So it was no wonder Jacqueline Jossa couldn't stop smiling as she arrived back at her hotel on the day of her engagement with new fiance Dan Osborne and their baby daughter Ella.
The EastEnders star showed off her glittering ring, which the former TOWIE star presented her with on Monday in a romantic proposal during the family holiday.
Dan, 24, wrapped his arm around his fiancee's waist as she flashed her diamond engagement ring.
Jacqueline looked tanned in a skimpy white dress which she teamed with flat sandals and a fringed shoulder
 

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Friday, June 12, 2015

Taylor Swift Donates $15,000 to the Firefighter Who Saved His Own Family From a Car Wreck

Earlier this week, the story of Thomas Lake, Texas, firefighter Aaron Van Riper went viral — called to attend a rescue operation following a serious car crash, Van Riper arrived on the scene to find the crash's victims were his wife Amber and 7-year-old son Jonathan. Both survived the incident; Jonathan has since been released from hospital following surgeries on his arm and leg, while Amber, who was ejected from her car during the crash, "still has some hurdles to overcome," Van Riper wrote on Facebook earlier this week, but is recovering.
The Van Riper family do not have health insurance, so a GoFundMe page was set up to help them with their medical bills. As their story gained media attention this week, donations begun to pour in — in four days, over $100,000 has been raised. And $15,000 of that total came from Taylor Swift. Taylor favorited a BuzzFeed report on the story Thursday, and shortly afterward, the five-figure donation in her name appeared on GoFundMe.
In previous instances, Taylor has kept her charitable donations on the down low, at least comparatively — like the time she reportedly donated to a homeless fan using her cats' initials. Her hospital visits, gift packages for fans, and other good deeds have been more noticeable, because we all love a good cry on the Internet.

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Thursday, June 11, 2015

Corazon Kwamboka gets Jealous of booties



Socialite Corazon has almost everything a normal lady would want. She is famous, beautiful and sexxy, has all the money and drives a nice car. But as they say, with human beings, nothing is ever enough, when you have a car you want a personal jet, when you get it you want a nice yacht and the list goes on.

There is this lady 'friend' (on social media) of Corazon whom they have been sharing each other's pictures, I guess she from the US and she is famously known for her huge booties, leave corazon aside, this lady is seriously blessed, it even made Corazon jealous of her behinds and eyes, here is what she commented. - 


Socialite Corazon has almost everything a normal lady would want. She is famous, beautiful and sexxy, has all the money and drives a nice car. But as they say, with human beings, nothing is ever enough, when you have a car you want a personal jet, when you get it you want a nice yacht and the list goes on.

There is this lady 'friend' (on social media) of Corazon whom they have been sharing each other's pictures, I guess she from the US and she is famously known for her huge booties, leave corazon aside, this lady is seriously blessed, it even made Corazon jealous of her behinds and eyes, here is what she commented. - See more at: http://www.nairobigossips.com/2015/06/corazon-kwamboka-gets-jealous-of.html#sthash.1OtJiy1Y.dpuf
Socialite Corazon has almost everything a normal lady would want. She is famous, beautiful and sexxy, has all the money and drives a nice car. But as they say, with human beings, nothing is ever enough, when you have a car you want a personal jet, when you get it you want a nice yacht and the list goes on.

There is this lady 'friend' (on social media) of Corazon whom they have been sharing each other's pictures, I guess she from the US and she is famously known for her huge booties, leave corazon aside, this lady is seriously blessed, it even made Corazon jealous of her behinds and eyes, here is what she commented. - See more at: http://www.nairobigossips.com/2015/06/corazon-kwamboka-gets-jealous-of.html#sthash.1OtJiy1Y.dpuf

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Husband share about lulu hassan virginty.

Now if you are loyal reader of the True
Love magazine,you must have read about
Lulu Hassan and her Hubby Rashid
Abdalla in this month’s edition.
The Interview turned uncomfortable and
sour for Lulu when her husband decided
to disclose details about her virginity.
All was flowing until TrueLove sought to
find out if the two had sex before
marriage to which Rashid said “Oh no, I
knew my wife in that sense only after
marriage. I. still have the white cloth that
is proof of her virginity on our wedding
night.I had to protect her honor.”
The details were too explicit to one soft
spoken Lulu until she had to cut him off,
“Babe don’t you think that information is
very private?”
So the big question remains ,which is
more creepier between marrying a
woman who is not a virgin or keeping the
virgin linen soaked with hymen for years
in the name of respecting the special
occasion???

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